Welcome to my Intro Package in Parenting by Personality
Confidence in your Parenting
Understanding of your Child
Does your baby flinch when they hear a loud noise? Is your Toddler scared of strangers? And clings to you when you go out with your friends?
Do you have major meltdowns when you pick your kids up from school? Does even asking questions of your child cause them to snap at you?
You have the same arguments about tidying bedrooms every week? You struggle to get your child organised to go to school? Or to sports practice?
Does any of this drive you crazy? Do you get angry when the same things come up again and again, and nothing you are saying is making a difference?
These are the basic tools that I share in this programme:
- I can help you understand why these things happen.
- I can help you understand why it seems like your child just does not listen.
- I can give you the confidence to make the right decision for your child when things start going wrong.
- I can give you the philosophy behind what makes your child tick.
Find out the basics of:
- Where your child focuses their attention…
- Where they get their energy…
- What information they attend to the most …
- How they make their decisions and judgements …
- How they like their outer world structured …
- How you can Parent your child in a way that doesn’t alienate you or stress your child …
- Get Understanding of the best way to deal with problems, in a way that works!
- Learn how your actions, and communication can hugely impact on your Parent/ Child relationship… just from understanding how they work ….
Signing up for this Introduction to Parenting By Personality gives you:
- My Book “Parent Your Child Your Way”
- 2 Mini Ebooks – that gives you a basic understanding of where your child’s personality sits, and some general ideas about dealing with the stress points.
- A 45 minute conversation with me (Skype, Phone or In-Person)
How would it feel to actually have a wonderful relationship with your child? To understand their fears, to know their strengths and know how to support them?
Here is an example of how Parenting by Personality works from an excerpt of my blog…..
As I jumped in the shower this morning – I asked my daughter to do her ballet practice.
10 minutes, put in the DVD which has the music, and she can follow along if she forgets something. Real easy. and something that she does 5 days a week …. except that she’d had the weekend off, and it was a long weekend and suddenly she can’t remember how to make it go.
Seriously frustrating to someone like me, seriously un-believable, except that for her it’s not.
As frustrated as I was, and as calm as I was trying to sound as I explained the steps that she had to take to make the DVD turn on, and how to change the settings on the TV to tune into the DVD player, and then make it go …… I was rolling my eyes. I was in the shower! Couldn’t she just remember what she’d seen me do before? Couldn’t she just remember what I’d talked her through the week before?
No – this is NEVER going to be important on her radar.
As I’m standing in the shower, seething in frustration, I realise, that I’ll probably have to do this next Monday, and the Monday following, and she is NEVER going to retain this information, and build on it. She is NEVER going to be interested in how to make stuff like the computer, of the TV go. If it doesn’t just start straight away, she is going to freak out, and need help.
As a child with preferences for Intuition, for Feeling, and for Perceiving …… the step by step logic attached to making a DVD player work on a TV, even though she has done it before is NEVER going to compute. Of course I can teach her, and get her to practice, and make it happen, but the reality is, and my epiphany is, that this just isn’t her thing!
Her 5 year old brother is so much more capable in this sense than she is, purely because ‘step-by-step’ logic, from the Sensing preference that he adheres to, means that he takes information that he has learned and builds on it every time he does something.
My daughter not so much.
And the next part of the story is that because she was trying so hard to figure out something that didn’t come naturally to her, that was really making her brain hurt while she tried to figure it all out, as she ran back and forth from the Living Room to my Shower – was that she lost energy and mojo, and this is when we got attitude and grumpiness – not because she is pre-teen and that’s what I should just expect, but because she was tiring herself out doing something that she didn’t understand, but she sort-of knew that she should be able to do, and then dealing with the ensuing grumpiness from me, because of my own frustration at her lack of ability to do something that she already knows……..
So – when I got out of the shower – much calmer after my epiphany – I went into the Living Room and talked through the steps to get it to work, while I pushed the buttons, and then left her to it.
This Programme is an Intro Package that opens your eyes to a NEW way of Parenting.
Today you can get this for
Don’t be shy – if you have ever wondered about where the personalities of your children came from, then NOW is the time to find out some more about it.
I promise there is only good that can come from learning about Personality Preferences, and the tools that I can give you.